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How to raise a child who listens well

April 20, 2011

by Holly Hanke

Being a good listener is critical to your child’s success at school. If he can’t follow directions, whether on the playground (“Pick a partner and pass the ball back and forth across the field”) or in the classroom (“Take out a piece of paper and a crayon”) β€” he’ll have a tough time learning. Children who are good listeners also have an advantage socially β€” they tend to be very good friends to others.

Here are seven ways you can help your child become a better listener:
Be a good listener yourself

Don’t interrupt your child when he’s telling you a story. Give him your undivided attention when he’s talking β€” don’t read the paper or carry on a conversation with someone else at the same time. Turn your attention to him when he wants to tell or show you something. If you want him to listen to you, he needs to see that you will listen to him too. Children return the respect they receive β€” and children who are listened to tend to become good listeners themselves.

Give clear, simple directions for everyday tasks

Get in the habit of giving your child simple instructions. Make eye contact with him, and say, “Please go into your room and make your bed. Then get your backpack and meet me downstairs.” As he becomes a better listener, you can add another task or two. In this way, you’re not only teaching your child to listen well, but also to be independent.

Praise good listening

Saying “Thanks for being such a good listener” will reinforce your child’s desire to listen. Make a special point of praising him when he follows directions the first time.

Say what you mean

If you tell your child “You can have two more cookies,” then give him two cookies β€” not three or four. Once your child figures out that you don’t stick to your word, he’ll tune you out.

Be consistent about consequences

If you tell your child that you will leave the grocery store if he continues to stand up in the cart, follow through without giving him another chance. Your child will be more inclined to do what is asked of him when he understands that his actions have clear, enforceable consequences.

Read aloud together

The time you spend reading together will help prepare your child for story time at school. He’ll be expected to sit still for longer and longer periods so anything you can do at home to help him increase his tolerance for listening will help. But don’t force your fidgety preschooler to listen to books he’s not interested in β€” this will make him less rather than more interested in reading. For more information, see our article on how to raise a child who loves to read.

Source: http://www.babycenter.com/0_how-to-raise-a-child-who-listens-well_64516.bc

Poor Philippines Records in Law and Order drove city dwellers to enjoy holidays in havens like Clark Freeport.

Metro Manila has lost a great deal of its luster of old not only because of its failure to keep up with the times in development but also its reputation as a safe destination for family bonding, travelers looking to unwind and relax in a beach or a lake and retirees looking for a life of leisure.

Clark Pampanga was the largest foreign US airbase, complete with its own international airport with daily flights linking it to major cities around Asia. Inside of Clark Philippines are golf courses, casinos, family-styled resorts that smacks of the US suburban lifestyles and fine-dining restaurants.

This web site contains articles and information that will be helpful to visitors, residents and tourists traveling out of town from Manila on a short getaway to Subic, Angeles City, Pampanga and Clark Philippines. There are several web sites that contain information that might also be pertinent to what is happening in North Luzon.

For assistance with organizing and planning weddings and garden receptions, log on to http://www.PhilippinesWeddingVenue.com

For assistance with lodgings, accommodations, hotels and resorts near Manila in Subic, Pampanga, Angels City and Clark Philippines log on to http://www.HotelClarkPhilippines.com

While in Clark, one might as well add to the itinerary a visit to the famous Clark Wine Center, the largest wine shop in Philippines which offers over 2000 selections of fine vintage wine from all wine regions, vintages spanning over 50 years covering all price ranges.

http://www.ClarkWineCenter.com

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